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To reduce body heat - Aloe vera

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Things around us always teach us some silent lessons. Aloe vera and Jack fruit are few of these things that tells me the story of "Beauty and the Beast". Just because of their appearance, we cannot avoid them. Coming to Aloe vera, it may appear to be dry and hard plant but it's each leaf contains juicy gel that can be used for various cosmetic and medical purposes. Here I provide the method of using Aloe vera to reduce body heat. Credits to my MIL, she gave me this health tip when all in our family was suffering from body heat at a same time. My son and I was having stomach ache, my husband was having eye itching and burning sensation. Following this gave us a desirable result. So that made me to post it here. Requirements: Aloe vera - 1 medium size leaf Palm sugar - 2-3 tbs Clean cloth Directions: Peal the skin of leaf.  click on the link to know How to peal the skin of Aloe vera cut the extract  into small pieces wash  the pi

Steps to Arranged Marriage

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Marriage is universally ultimate event in anyone's life. In India (I dont know about any other country), it is considered to be an ultimate family event. It is not just an union of two person, but of two families. The wedding can be finalized, only if it could be crossed each steps successfully, sidestepping is very dangerous.. There are many chances to slip at any step. Matching horoscope: I don't know much about this, but minimum 6 and maximum 10 attributes needs to be matched with each other.  Enquiry: Many in these days go for detective agency too. My mom being a single parent solely responsible for whatever decision she makes. With much hope on God and few reliable relatives' words, she did not inquire anything about Vetri in detail but enquired about their family in General.  Enquiry Result as follows:  - Very quiet family  -do not interfere in any controversy  - the house is always kept locked and members of the family could be       see

Where are we going after wedding?

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No, it is not about the honeymoon. Since, Vetri had left to US, my friends and relatives are very curious to know, what next after wedding. Are we going to abode in abroad? Sorry, I was not sure about it then. Even I wanted to know. But I was waiting for him to begin this topic. U may think "waiting"? Yes, we had full six months between engagement and marriage. So, need not to urge for anything.   Then when the ice broke, he said there were three options left:  Chennai, Vellore and US . Then I came to know that he went to US with 6 months VISA and applied for extension. If it got approved, he will continue to stay there, that is after wedding. If not, will come back to work in Chennai. Vellore? since he comes back at the time of wedding, the possibility for finalizing the house to reside may take time, so by then, I need to stay back in Vellore with in laws. May be for couple of months. According to him, he had clarified me the situation. Yes I too understood that

Bye Bye my fiance

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When I got engaged, Vetri was not tagged as an "American mappilai". He was only looking for onsite opportunity. This is what we knew. Suddenly a week after engagement, in an evening call, he told me that he might go to US in a week. To be frank, I am neither excited nor sad. That was an empty feel, "so, what should I do? inform my mom?". He asked me to do so after a final confirmation from his Manager. On the next weekend, we both met in our home town. I came exclusively to send him off to US.  That was the second time we met in same Jalagandeeswar Temple after engagement. That was all our hang out history in "betrothal to wedding" period. I gifted him a fastrack watch, that was my favorite brand. Later in Airport, I heard that he left it back in his room itself. I just gulped my anger and gave a plain look, I was not interested to show up my emotions. After all few more hours left to say bye. Yes, I went to Chennai Airport with him and with my in