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Disclaimer: This may look something irrelevant to my blog, but yes I started writing this down for my niece and nephews who are struggling to overcome their distractions during their study hours. Publishing it with a hope that it may be useful for some other little hearts too. Lock down is an unexpected phase of our life. Many have no idea on what to do in this phase. Few want to enjoy, few want to be peaceful and few want to make use of it in a different way. Many of those people who thought of making it useful chose to learn new things. When it comes to new learning, more time, an open mind, peaceful environment and concentration is more important. Lock down has given more time, now we need to bring the rest of the things into our life. Concentration : Many would say, concentration is staying focused. I agree. A Sculptor sees a desired sculpture in an uncut rock. That is staying focused; seeing only what needs to be done.  But when it is too difficult to stay focused, we can cho...

DREAM is not what you  see in  sleep ,  DREAM  is something which doesn't let  you sleep . – Dr. A.P.J Abdul Kalam. That is determination. Before we talk about how to be determined, we should be clear on the goal for which we need to be determined. What is your goal? Becoming a Doctor or getting higher score in 12th? Becoming a Doctor is a goal to be achieved; getting higher scores, clearing entrance exams, getting Doctor seat in a reputed college, doing good in medical exams are part of that goal. Be determined to achieve the primary goal. When should we be determined? It is easy to define or express what our goals are, but to do what we speak are really difficult. Because we may make mistakes, we may delay in learning, we may delay in processing, we may fail too. But do we need to stop there? So, it is important to be determined at the time of difficulties. When something happens against your plan, or may be nothing happen as per your plan. ...

Blogging in initial days were just compared to diaries as many were using it to share their experience and to post things informally. But it is no more a hobby. Though many bloggers post contents in an informal manners, they post it for many useful reasons. Many are educative, informative and enlightening. All such contents need much efforts on research and presentation. So, their work needs an acknowledgement too. Yes the same informative, educative and enlightening contents we receive online are from YouTube videos and of course they have a good reach. Planting a tree, watering it for so many days and giving you the fruit is what the bloggers do. They think of a content, do a background research, get materials and present it in a form of a post. Youtubers go a step ahead and make the fruit into a juice 😀, yes they too do all that the bloggers do and in addition to that, they are presenting it in a visual form. I just compared the efforts of both the content creators. Beyond both t...

இது தான் தமிழ் ! அனைத்தையும் படிக்க ஒரு பிறவி போதாது.. பெயர்களையாவது படித்து அறிவோம்.. 1. தேவாரம்  2. திருவாசகம் 3. திருமந்திரம் 4. திருவருட்பா  5. திருப்பாவை  6. திருவெம்பாவை  7. திருவிசைப்பா 8. திருப்பல்லாண்டு 9. கந்தர் அனுபூதி 10. இந்த புராணம் 11. பெரிய புராணம் 12. நாச்சியார் திருமொழி  13. ஆழ்வார் பாசுரங்கள் போன்ற மிகச் சிறந்த பக்தி இலக்கியங்கள்..! 1.நற்றிணை  2.குறுந்தொகை  3.ஐங்குறுநூறு  4.அகநானூறு  5.புறநானூறு  6.பதிற்றுப்பத்து  7.பரிபாடல்  8.கலித்தொகை என்னும் "எட்டுத்தொகை" சங்க நூல்கள்.. ! 1.திருமுருகாற்றுப்படை 2.சிறுபாணாற்றுப்படை 3.பெரும்பாணாற்றுப்படை 4.பொருநராற்றுப்படை  5.முல்லைப்பாட்டு  6.மதுரைக்காஞ்சி  7.நெடுநல்வாடை  8.குறிஞ்சிப் பாட்டு  9.பட்டினப்பாலை  10.மலைபடுகடாம் என்னும் "பத்துப்பாட்டு" சங்க நூல்கள்....! 1.திருக்குறள்  2.நாலடியார்  3.நான்மணிக்கடிகை  4.இன்னாநாற்பது  5.இனியவை நாற்பது  6.கார் நாற்பது  7.களவழி நாற்பது  8.ஐந்திணை ஐம்பது  9.திணைமொழி ஐ...

#copypasted #Parenting According to psychologists, there are four types of intelligence:  1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ) 2) Emotional  Quotient (EQ) 3) Social Quotient (SQ) 4) Adversity Quotient (AQ) 1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters. 2. Emotional Quotient (EQ) : this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate. 3. Social Quotient (SQ):  This is the measure of your ability  to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time. People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down. A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ. Your EQ represents your c...

This happens almost all days in the morning. It is a mood spoiler. It happens the moment you turn around to grab sugar from the shelf or a spoon from the drawer or at the milli second that you take to check all your social media updates😊  I wonder whether the milk in the vessel waits for that moment of our distraction, to vent out the creamy layer formed on top of it. Whatever, in that nano second, our stove and vessel turn out to be a disaster. All we end up saying is..."it all happened in a second". In kitchen it is very common; in a nano second, the browny cashew become charcoal, dosa become charcoal mask on dosa tawa, yummy spicy smell will give burnt smell. All these spoil the hard work of time and effort in a blink of eyes. Many kitchen accidents are also happen in no time. So, that short time of distraction not only end up in spoiling your food or mood, but sometimes leave a life long scar on your lives. When it comes to nano second diversion,  two things comes...

Devices at our home are part of our home. Don't you think, AI devices becoming part of our family. When we move on to smart living, these smart devices are inevitable. Uses and benefits of these devices are available in their ads and websites. I am not into promoting them:). Few complains that we got addicted to the gadgets. I can't deny it. But I question, is that wrong? I see it as an optimal use of technologies. Devices are introduced to simplify our job. We should be aware of making use of it. Now Google home and Alexa are becoming a part of many of our houses. Our day begins with "Hey google, whats the time now? Hey google whats the weather today?, Hey google Whats the News headlines? Hey google what the appointments I have today? Hey Google how is the traffic to work today? I agree that, these devices won't replace human beings, because they cant bring bed coffee to you. Similarly, the person who bring you bed coffee will not be answering to all the ...