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When a mother says she’s tired, that’s all she meant ! She did not say she wants to drop her child and forget that the child exists.  When a mother says she wanted some time alone, just her, that’s all she meant . She didn’t say she’s sorry to be a mother and that motherhood was a mistake in her life. 

When a mother says she needs help to get things done, that’s exactly what she meant. She is not incapable. When a mother makes noddles for dinner, it does not mean she does noddles everyday of the week and that her daughter/son is a child who does not know vegetables or meats. When you arrive at a mothers house and face disorganization, it doesn’t mean that everyday the house is disorganized. 

When a mother says she’d love to go out with her friends, that’s all she meant. She doesn’t want to go back to being “single/ not a mother” and like it as if she had responsibility. When a mother says she worried or afraid, that’s what she meant! She didn’t say she’s going to falter and much less a coward. 

When you listen to a mother screaming, it doesn’t mean she just screams, probably she has spoken 300 times with normal voice tone. When you see a nervous mother, on the edge of madness, doesn’t mean everyday she’s in that situation. 

Do not invent untruths to judge someone, let alone a women who every day, at all times, gives up her own life to live life of another being that she knows is much more important than her. In the world there is no human being able to give up and donate as much as a mother. And we deserve a lot of understanding and fewer trials 🌸🙇🏽‍♀️✨

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